Listen ...

Found this on my coffee cup this morning (6am, after running at 4:30am): "You can learn a lot more from listening than you can from talking. Find someone with whom you don´t agree in the slightest and ask them to explain themselves at length. Then take a seat, shut your mouth, and don´t argue back. It´s physically impossible to listen with your mouth open." [source: John Moe]
This saying is true and I practise it quite often without thinking about it. But I got often told you are shy, to quite, not interessted or so. But if you realy listen you shut up!
So try to listen --- Kjell